Bismillahi ar-rahmani ar-raheem

In the Name of Allah, the Most Compassionate, the Most Merciful

Dont even say uff to them.

“Your Lord hath decreed that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honour. And, out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: My Lord! Bestow on them Your Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood.” [Quran 17:23]

In the name of God, the Merciful, the Compassionate.
Say (O Muhammad) He is God the One God, the Everlasting Refuge, who has not begotten, nor has been begotten, and equal to Him is not anyone.

God is the Creator of everything. He is the guardian over everything. Unto Him belong the keys of the heavens and the earth.” (39:62, 63)

No creature is there crawling on the earth, but its provision rests on God. He knows its lodging place and it repository.” (11:6)

Anas (radi Allahu anhu) reported: “I never felt any piece of velvet or silk softer than the palm of the Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam), nor did I smell any fragrance more pleasant than the smell of the Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam). I served him for ten years, and he never said ‘Uff’ (an expression of disgust) to me. He never said ‘why did you do that?’ for something I had done, nor did he ever say ‘why did you not do such and such’ for something I had not done.” [Sahih Bukhari]

This hadith reflects the sublime morality of the Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) that he never found faults with the doings of his servant, nor did he ever scold him, during his ten-year-long service. To be sure, this is something unique in human history. May the Ummah also adopt the refined way of living of its Prophet (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam).



ALLAH, the Exalted, says:

"And verily, you (O Muhammad (PBUH)) are on an exalted (standard of) character.'' (68:4)

"The Jannah is prepared for those)... who repress anger, and who pardon men.'' (3:134)

Ahadith:
1. Anas (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of ALLAH (PBUH) was the best of all the people in behaviour. [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

2. Anas (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: I never felt any piece of velvet or silk softer than the palm of the Messenger of ALLAH (PBUH), nor did I smell any fragrance more pleasant than the smell of Messenger of ALLAH (PBUH). I served him for ten years, and he never said `Uff' (an expression of disgust) to me. He never said `why did you do that?' for something I had done, nor did he ever say `why did you not do such and such' for something I had not done. [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].


3. Nawwas bin Sam`an (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: I asked Messenger of ALLAH (PBUH) about virtue and sin, and he said, "Virtue is noble behaviour, and sin is that which creates doubt and you do not like people to know about it.'' [Muslim].

4. `Abdullah bin `Amr bin Al-`as (May ALLAH be pleased with them) reported: Messenger of ALLAH (PBUH) did not indulge in loose talk nor did he like to listen to it. He used to say, "The best of you is the best among you in conduct.'' [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

5. Abud-Darda (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (PBUH) said, "Nothing will be heavier on the Day of Resurrection in the Scale of the believer than good manners. ALLAH hates one who utters foul or coarse language.'' [At-Tirmidhi].

6. Abu Hurairah (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of ALLAH (PBUH) was asked about the deed which will be foremost to lead a man to Jannah. He replied, "Fear of ALLAH and the good conduct.'' Then he was asked about indulgence which will admit a man to Hell (Fire) and he answered, "The tongue and the genitals.'' [At-Tirmidhi].

7. Abu Umamah Al-Bahili (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of ALLAH (PBUH) said, "I guarantee a house in Jannah for one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right; and I guarantee a home in the middle of Jannah for one who abandons lying even for the sake of fun; and I guarantee a house in the highest part of Jannah for one who has good manners.'' [Abu Dawud].

8. Jabir (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of ALLAH (PBUH) said, "The dearest and nearest among you to me on the Day of Resurrection will be one who is the best of you in manners; and the most abhorrent among you to me and the farthest of you from me will be the pompous, the garrulous, and Al-Mutafaihiqun.'' The Companions asked him: "O Messenger of ALLAH! We know about the pompous and the garrulous, but we do not know who Al-Mutafaihiqun are.'' He replied: "The arrogant people.'' [At-Tirmidhi].